Are these self-help tactics hurting you?

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One of my first memories from childhood is running around the schoolyard, ‘patching up’ relationships between other kids. Here’s the weird part — I didn’t have any friends.

At 7 or 8, I had two choices. Sit in the playground by myself and read my book, or help two factions make peace. It wasn’t quite as good as having a friend… but at least people needed me. And hey, I was pretty good at…

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Tech and travel copywriter who writes content, kickass websites, and emails that convert. Low key Star Trek fan.

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Claire Heginbotham

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Tech and travel copywriter who writes content, kickass websites, and emails that convert. Low key Star Trek fan.

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